Comparison is the Thief of Joy

Let's talk about the comparison trap. We all know it well, that sneaky little voice in our heads that whispers sweet nothings like, "Ugh, she's so much prettier than you," or "Why can't you be as successful as her?"

“Comparison is the thief of joy.” If I have heard my husband say this once, I’ve heard it 1000 times! He has some nice little words of wisdom for a guy at the ripe old age of 40. Even though I’m poking fun here, I believe this with 100% of my being. So WHY is it SO HARD?!

The comparison trap is a real buzzkill. It can make us feel insecure, inadequate, and just plain not good enough. And yet we all do it from time to time. But here's the thing: it's all BS.

We are all unique and beautiful individuals. We have our own strengths and weaknesses, and we should embrace them. Instead of comparing ourselves to others, we should focus on being the best version of ourselves.

So next time you find yourself falling into the comparison trap, take a deep breath and remind yourself of these things:

• You are enough. Just as you are. No ifs, ands, or buts.

• Everyone is on their own journey. Comparing yourself to someone else is like comparing apples to oranges. It's just not fair.

• Focus on your own goals. What do you want to achieve? What makes you happy? When you focus on your own goals, you'll be less likely to compare yourself to others.

And remember, the only person you should be comparing yourself to is the person you were yesterday. Are you kinder? More compassionate? More confident? If so, then you're on the right track.

The world is full of enough noise and negativity. Don't add to it by comparing yourself to others. Instead, focus on being the best version of yourself. You are amazing, just the way you are.

So go out there and shine, ladies! The world needs you just the way you are!

Until next time,

Jennifer